{"id":1256,"date":"2017-10-11T17:46:42","date_gmt":"2017-10-12T00:46:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/?p=1256"},"modified":"2017-10-11T17:46:42","modified_gmt":"2017-10-12T00:46:42","slug":"media-and-memory","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/2017\/10\/media-and-memory","title":{"rendered":"media and memory"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1257\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_7679.jpg\" alt=\"microfilm\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_7679.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_7679-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_7679-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So hey I am sometimes <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/jessamyn\/status\/918264852271026177\">telling funny stories over on Twitter<\/a> and I&#8217;ve been less in the mood for longform posting. I am spacey lately. I am overcome with little fits of very bad or very good moods. This is all normal. But it means I&#8217;m better at communicating in person or over email than blogging for whatever reason.<\/p>\n<p>The original purpose of this blog, way back in 1997, was to make my mom quit calling me. No, seriously. I lived in Seattle and if I was gone for a weekend she&#8217;d call my house sometimes three or four times, leaving increasingly agitated messages wondering where I was. I was a late-twenties woman doing my own thing who didn&#8217;t always check in with her mom before heading out of town or just not returning a phone call. My mom was very close to her mom in a sort of &#8220;Let&#8217;s stay in touch about day to day things&#8221; way. I was always less like that. We had mismatched expectations. So I&#8217;d keep the blog up to tell general stories and tell my mom if she was agitated she could go there and read what I was up to. And she did. Over the last few years I&#8217;d made more of an effort to keep in touch: sending postcards when I would travel (a trick I learned from my dad) or, in 2017, emailing her every day.<\/p>\n<p>Once email became more ubiquitous, I was a little more reachable (and responsive) but I never got the hang of the &#8220;Let&#8217;s call to check in&#8221; routine, with anyone. Apologies to those who would prefer telephone interactions with me, they are not really an option. The blog grew and became the place I would tell little stories and add updates. As social media has been more of a bigger deal, a lot of my intermittent communications to the world have taken place there. I also have <a href=\"https:\/\/tinyletter.com\/jessamyn\">a library newsletter<\/a> and that&#8217;s taken away some steam from my library blog. I really like telling these stories, I just do it less frequently.<\/p>\n<p>So let me tell you what has been up.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>My mom&#8217;s Celebration of Life was better than expected and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/lostartpress\/sets\/72157685273789744\/\">you can see a few photos here<\/a>. If I had any regrets it&#8217;s that I didn&#8217;t wear something more flattering because some of these people I may not see again.<\/li>\n<li>I returned to Vermont with no firm plans about what Kate and I are doing about anything. This is fine and something Kate and I agree on. As always, I am lucky to have her in my life.<\/li>\n<li>Re-entry has been great and only rocky because I am a bear of very little brain and maybe trying to do too much. Everyone has been kind. Drop-in Time has started up again. My romance with this state continues.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/@jessamyn\/suing-equifax-in-small-claims-court-3f7c584e5717\">I am suing Equifax because everyone needs a hobby<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>I went to Edmonton Alberta to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.librarian.net\/talks\/netspeed\/\">keynote a library conference<\/a> and it went well and I met some great people and learned some great things. Amy, thanks for hosting me. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/iamthebestartist\/sets\/72157687038098510\">Some photos<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Jim got cataract surgery on the same day\/time as my keynote (it went well too!) and we were both pleased to discover we seem to have more resilience for dealing with difficult\/stressful situations as a couple and that&#8217;s neat to find out.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And I&#8217;m sure there are more things I forgot to mention. I&#8217;m keeping up my usual civics\/volunteerism thing and doing a few odd jobs that invariably turns into seven odd jobs. The Equifax thing is getting some attention which was most of what I wanted out of it anyhow.<\/p>\n<p>I rarely think of &#8220;social capital&#8221; as some sort of cosmic karma bank that I would need to make a withdrawal from, but it&#8217;s nice to know that there are other people out there just fellow traveling who are around to pitch in a word or a beer or a sandwich when it&#8217;s useful. I hope I can do the same. Thanks for reading, thanks for caring.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/2017\/10\/media-and-memory\" rel=\"bookmark\" title=\"Permalink to media and memory\"><p>So hey I am sometimes telling funny stories over on Twitter and I&#8217;ve been less in the mood for longform posting. I am spacey lately. I am overcome with little fits of very bad or very good moods. This is all normal. 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