{"id":1475,"date":"2021-02-27T11:20:44","date_gmt":"2021-02-27T18:20:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/?p=1475"},"modified":"2021-02-27T11:20:44","modified_gmt":"2021-02-27T18:20:44","slug":"cheerful-not-happy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/2021\/02\/cheerful-not-happy","title":{"rendered":"cheerful not happy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/IMG_0274.jpg\" alt=\"photo of a wallk of snow with the sun peeking out from behind it with some wispy clouds being lit by the sun.\" width=\"600\" height=\"479\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/IMG_0274.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/IMG_0274-300x240.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Really trying to at least get an update a month in here, but the news is still basically &#8220;No real news.&#8221; Kate got vaccinated. Ronni got her first shot. I&#8217;ve been going on walks every day that I&#8217;m not at home working all day (so out and about maybe six days a week, not bad). Sleep&#8217;s been okay. Teeth have been less okay. Gallbladder has been okay so far and I&#8217;ve been pretty happy to be able to postpone surgery until a time that is more convenient. My Scrabble game is okay. Jim&#8217;s been doing well. I&#8217;ve found a bunch of new YouTube stuff&#8211;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCT5C7yaO3RVuOgwP8JVAujQ\">Taskmaster<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/NoMoreJockeys\/videos\">No More Jockeys<\/a>&#8211;to give me some teevee to watch when I&#8217;ve got some extra time in the day. I <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/jessamyn\/status\/1365474079990575113\">found my sweaters<\/a> that I somehow thought I&#8217;d gotten rid of. I&#8217;ll worry about my memory after there&#8217;s some herd immunity.<\/p>\n<p>I read elsewhere about someone discussing how they&#8217;ve been coping with all of this. Someone told them they seemed happy all the time. They responded that while they were far from happy&#8211;happiness can be elusive during times of great upheaval and restriction and trouble&#8211;they were able to mostly be <strong>cheerful<\/strong>, put on a decent face when interacting with other people. I&#8217;ve been working on the same thing. Obviously I&#8217;ve got folks in my life to whom I can just say &#8220;This aspect of this whole thing sucks!&#8221; However, in a general sense, my public face is mostly not the &#8220;This sucks!&#8221; face. Now that I&#8217;ve thought about the differences between happy and cheerful, and how they can each appear externally, I feel better about saying &#8220;Not bad, and you?&#8221; to people who ask me how I&#8217;m doing, without feeling like I am lying or faking it. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve got nothing but time to think about this stuff when I&#8217;m not purposefully hurling myself into time-consuming hobbies like creating a navigation box for State Libraries or Stadium Organists on Wikipedia. Looking forward to warmer weather when it&#8217;s easier to walk in the woods and hug some trees, and later months when it&#8217;s easier to walk to other houses, hug some friends.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jessamyn.com\/journal\/2021\/02\/cheerful-not-happy\" rel=\"bookmark\" title=\"Permalink to cheerful not happy\"><p>Really trying to at least get an update a month in here, but the news is still basically &#8220;No real news.&#8221; Kate got vaccinated. Ronni got her first shot. I&#8217;ve been going on walks every day that I&#8217;m not at home working all day (so out and about maybe six days a week, not bad). 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